I went to a lecture over the weekend about maintaining a happy, healthy marriage. It was given by a marriage counselor (and I don't remember her name!) and she had some very interesting information.
Basically, she said that 100% of the couples she works with don't do the following 5 things, but that their relationships improve when they start doing them. So here are her 5 steps to safeguarding your marriage:
1. Pray together
Obviously, not all couples pray. But if you are someone who does, do you pray with your husband? Coming together to pray, rather than always doing it on your own, will bring you closer together.
2. Play together
This could mean anything from board games and video games, to participating in hobbies together.
3. Have sex
4. Say "I love you"
Not just with words, but with actions. Find ways throughout the day not only to say "I love you" but to show your love for each other.
Not just a quick peck before going to work. A real 10+ second make-out kiss.
Do you two do these things? If not, would you be willing to try to see if it made an improvement?