I have been diagnosed with a neurological disorder. I have always been busy and active, cleaning, cooking, kids, dogs, cats, volunteering, helping others, baking, crafting, etc. Same as most moms. So, I am physically able to do less and less. I get no help from dh. I have mentioned that I really need help with the house and the dogs, many times. He works all day and has a 2 hour commute.If I am having a symptomatic day, pain, extreme fatigue, uncoordinated, difficulty walking, jerky movement, extreme weakness, I cannot clean and cook. I am alone all day long with the animals, who cannot be unattended all day. Dh is fighting me on getting someone to help me out around here. I can't drive on these days, and dh will not go shopping. I am thinking about moving back to my home state and possibly getting into disability and housing. I have a progressive form of this disease and eventually won't be able to walk, feed, toilet, or bathe myself. I'm afraid that if I stay here dh is going to neglect me.
on Aug. 21, 2014 at 3:59 PM