She is a straight a student, does all her homework and plays outside when the weather is nice. I also have her do chores around the house and loves helping me cook and entertain the baby. I think she is mature for her age and well rounded. We do have trouble with anxiety so it affects her attitude and behavior so her iPod is always the first thing that gets taken. But when she has do I really need to limit her playtime on it? I mean I'm on my phone all the time even at work. Yet I still do chores and have a life. So should it matter if she chooses to spend her free time on that or another toy?