DH felt pressured because his was the sole income, so I found a job....and now I'm working more than he is. Keep in mind, I don't MAKE more than he does, but I work more hours.
Now he's acting resentful. We have had more fights over money in the last 2 weeks than we have had in the 20 years we've been together. He acts the martyr because he's been asked to help out with a few things at home. He even refuses the idea of a cleaning lady even though he won't clean. Right now it's easier for me to do what needs to be done and don't speak to him.
If it wasn't for the fact that we do need the extra money, I feel discouraged enough to quit my job.