Okay so I met this nice guy yesterday he gave me his number but I am a little lery call me over protective but somethings he said just said to me no way! He was critisizing my son having nail polish on his toe's he is only five he is just a child I see nothing wrong with him having toe nail polish on or nail polish at all he see's mom do it and thinks it's cool it's just something we do together and it's harmless. He's playing I see no point in putting stereotypes on a child I want him to be free to be him whomever that may be my son has fairy wings and lots of customs superhero's and plays with superhero toys and crosses his legs, I don't care what society says in my home he is free. If my son ends up being straight gay bi I don't care what I want him to know that he is loved not put down for being him and I don't want him to feel like a prisoner in his own life. Also religiously he's not the same faith background and in my family that is very important and for me it is important because I want a family united in the same church. I feel really strongly about this I was raised catholic and I still believe in catholisim. I am also open to dating whomever I may fall in love with reguardless of gender, I would just like to have more kids :). When I would date a women family would not really allow them to come to family gatherings and I would hear put downs and they would want me to be more girly, wear makeup, and call me butch and such and the most hurtful comments didn't come from society it came from my home. When people ask me what I am I say I am Crystal I don't like boxes. You can't put a box around whom you fall in love with, the type of characteristics, personality disposition. You can try to tell yourself not to but if it is whom you love then that is whom you love.