Ok so We saw Jacobs psychiatrist yesterday and she flipped when I explained Jacob's new disappearing acts. Apparently he's doing this when he feels overwhelmed. She tries to talk to him, but he shut down and just played with his hands making no eye contact with anyone. She wants him in therapy as well as everything else to see if he will gain trust with them and explain more. Also because he will be going back to public school. So she asked him if he wanted to see a male Dr and Jacob at this point wouldn't answer any questions. I asked him did he feel most comfortable talking to Mommy or Daddy, he said me. (DH is now pouting, oh well) Anyway on to the question... Do you think he would feel better with male or female? Let me say Jacob is very timid and not at all aggressive. He can at times behave feminine in some ways (don't think I'm a bad Mama for voicing that). DH actually asked a long time ago what we'd do if Jacob came out as an adult. So that's the personality. I'm thinking female, but the dr and DH are thinking male. Any opinions??
on Jun. 30, 2012 at 11:40 AM