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living with parents.

Posted by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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is not going well, apperently i can't do anything for jude till at least august 14th because when i went to get medical switched today appernelty you have to fill out the forms, make the appointment then wait for the appointment. ugh.

so thats on hold till next month *roll eyes*

my parents a getting mad at everything, the dogs, and i swear they think its a crime if jude crys, like we are torturing him or something.

he was in trouble today cuz he wouldn't listen he was grabbing toys from the 2 other kids here then he kicked the crap outta me during a diaper change.

so he got put in time out and he threw a fit, and my mom thought it was terrible.

acording to her all the other grankids she watches are horrible and jude is perfect.

its the exact opposite, jude is the worse of all the kids, and the others kids arn't that bad at all.

jude has yet to stop whining, crying, screaming and just meltingdown about everything. he hasnt been this upset in months, i feel bad because i can't do anything to make him happier because im pretty sure it has to do with the living arrangments.

its just not going well

if any of you have any ideas on how we can earn alot of money fast i'd appriciate it.

Posted by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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DOllfACE-
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:19 PM
Strip club.....you said quick and a lot
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DOllfACE-
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:20 PM
Honesty just save what you can. Hugs that you're going thru all this :/
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jb022210
by Bronze Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:22 PM


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Strip club.....you said quick and a lot


LOL we'd have to pay them if they had to look at us! lol if i had the body i would in all honesty, i so wish we had other options for living arrangements.

DOllfACE-
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:24 PM
Idk your income (not my buisness) but maybe if its that bad try section8 housing or assistant living for the time being?


Quoting jb022210:



Quoting DOllfACE-:

Strip club.....you said quick and a lot


LOL we'd have to pay them if they had to look at us! lol if i had the body i would in all honesty, i so wish we had other options for living arrangements.


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Austinsmom4544
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:27 PM

Lol, you are bad!   :)

Quoting DOllfACE-:

Strip club.....you said quick and a lot



jb022210
by Bronze Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:29 PM


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Idk your income (not my buisness) but maybe if its that bad try section8 housing or assistant living for the time being?


Quoting jb022210:

 


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Strip club.....you said quick and a lot


LOL we'd have to pay them if they had to look at us! lol if i had the body i would in all honesty, i so wish we had other options for living arrangements.



 

 

right now we are in the hole to my parents about $300 we have not a dime to our name, amber has a job now but wont get a even semi decent paycheck for a few more weeks where shes just starting her job, and that type of housing you cant have animals, and we have 2 dogs 2 cats and a rat  and we are not losing any of our babies.

twins0506
by Holly on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:37 PM
If I had any advice for to I'd be doing it myself sorry! I live with my Inlaws and it is pure HELL! I'm almost in the same boat as you so I totally understand :/
shell3m
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:38 PM

ok if you want to work from home there a business link on facebook called Southernbellemarketingsystem.com   

what you do is (this company work with compaines on the Fortune 500 list) you do compaines Free trial of things (you get paid $20.00 for that) then you post about what you do (facebook, craigslist.......) and for every person that signs up under you, you make 100 bucks.   Work about 2 hours everyday at this and you can make a pretty penny in a month.  Go sign up under my friend Kym Bunton  or ZNZ Now Hiring (and look for her name).   

if you want to make money and stay home.....there ya go.  :)  and sorry your family is driving you nuts.  ((Hugs))

MomOfOneCoolKid
by Silver Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:38 PM

About Jude crying. It will immensely help his language and overall development if you find a way to understand him and help him calm down. if he is tanturming or melting down, at 2 years old, its not time for time out. its time to try to calm him down with a favorite toy, etc.

if he kicked you during diapertime, say, there's no kicking honey. try to prevent the kicking. tell him its time for a diaper change and smile. before the diaper change give him a sticker and tell him good job for laying down (even before he has laid down) and with very gentle hands show him to lay down. during the diaper change, sing a favorite song. smile. he's a gift. after the diaper change, give him a cookie. make it a good time. even if he kicks during the diaper change, after the diaper change, give him a cookie. i know it sounds counter intuitive, but, this has worked for me. my son resisted me putting cream on him after his bath (eczema) and pjs. thats what i did. he pinches the crap out of me to the point where there are scratches all over my arm BLEEDING. still after the pj time he got a cookie. not a big cookie. one of those cookies from the 100 calorie packs. Since this was everytime for the cream and pj time i did this. now when he pinches me and its not cream and pj time, he does go to his room for timeout.

a hostile environment of course is not good for anyone but...

finding someone who LOVES your kid like your mom loves your kid... that's something to consider

i wish only the best for you and your son. :)

i hope you still like me :)

DOllfACE-
by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:39 PM

bar tending racks in nice tips. I did it when I was 18 to save up for Mason [I had mason at 19 yrs old]. I mean it wasn't millions but it was enough to pay off bills and food

Quoting jb022210:

 

Quoting DOllfACE-:

Idk your income (not my buisness) but maybe if its that bad try section8 housing or assistant living for the time being?


Quoting jb022210:

 


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Strip club.....you said quick and a lot


LOL we'd have to pay them if they had to look at us! lol if i had the body i would in all honesty, i so wish we had other options for living arrangements.



 

 

right now we are in the hole to my parents about $300 we have not a dime to our name, amber has a job now but wont get a even semi decent paycheck for a few more weeks where shes just starting her job, and that type of housing you cant have animals, and we have 2 dogs 2 cats and a rat  and we are not losing any of our babies.


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