Hello, I have been a memeber of cafemom but not that active. My daughter was diagnosed with Autism and after three seperate evluations with the same diagnose, I have come to accept this. Today my Hsband had to turn down an excellent job offer that he has been waiting for years due to the fact that benefits that we have now are no competion with what we would have. my daughter gets up to 36 ,000 a year for aba or any other type of therapy related to autism. I know and he knows that he did the right thing but this really made me open up my eyes and see to how much autism can affect the whole family. I am new to thisand I could use support.