My son Ethan finally made it to the top of the DD waiver list for New Mexico. He has been on the waiting list for 11 years. So now comes the chore of lots more paperwork for the waiver, for medicaid, and SSI. His caseworker is great and lots of help, people at the state office have been great helping with medicaid paperwork. It's just the social security office that is being a pain. They don't even want to tell me where the forms are to even start filling them out. I've been a couple of times and they have been busy, but aren't they always busy and shouldn't they have to help no matter what your request is?!?!? If that is true than why can't they just give me the forms? I'm not asking them to fill them out for me, just hand them to me and I will leave and bring them back when they are all filled out and I have all the other documents they want.
Just venting now, I'm obviously not giving up, just needing to vent. I will succeed no matter how rude and nasty those people are.