by the end of the day- i am exhausted as im sure yu all are... my son, 6, has massive meltdowns when my daughter cries. its obnoxious really. so insrtead of comforting her, i spend the time getttng her to stop crying or i have to et her cry while i manage himbecasue he wil become self injurious, throw, slam.. i am SOOOO tired of it and then if im tired i just lose it and go off and then everyone is upset including me... so tired of it! anyone deal withthis? anyone have a soution?