Babysitting and feeling inadequate
I'm not a huge babysitter, mainly because there are few kids I can bring into my home who don't upset my kids routines and cause meltdowns in my house. I figure home is the one place my kids can be themselves and that this should be a safe place for them.
that being said, I am watching a couple little boys today. One is nt, he holds full out conversations with me, talks about trucks, and cars. Tells me what school was like for him and what they did. I realize its harder for me to hold the conversation then it should be. I'm so used to my kids and the way we communicate that today I'm playing catch up and feeling out of place keeping up my side of the conversation.
This little guys brother is on the spectrum, and there are very very few people who will watch him because he can get violent quick if you don't know how to deal with him. He's also a runner. I'm lucky he likes me and my house. He sees me at school and has some of the same things my daughter has accomidations wise. So he and I are buddy's.
the stark contrast between little brother and big brother amaze me. And I feel so inadequate to keep up with little brother.
Is this how it is when you have a child on the spectrum and one not? With both of mine on the spectrum I'm used to the life we have, challenges and all. I imagine it would. Be much harder to have kids on the spectrum and kids not on the spectrum.
What are your ladies experiences?