I kind of feel like the doctors in the neuropsych, behavorial developmental clinic tore my daughter apart, thread by thread!! The meeting seemed to go pretty decent, the doctors seemed understanding so on and so forth.. ok fast forward a week, the reports are in... I was floored by what was said!! everything possibly "wrong" was in black and white, far from nicely stated.. lets see prime example listing examnination: mild facial deformity.. YES DEFORMITY like wtf is that?!! I dont see her as deformed, what the hell are you talking about?!!! noted on her lazy eyes, her prominent forhead vein, refusal to make eye contact, rigid, like, helloooo.... what did you expect? they watched us from a two way mirror, and apparently when they were not in the room izzy socialized well with me, well yes, im her mother! then THEY come in the room, and she shuts down, becomes non verbal lacks eye contact.. um, ok, did you think i was making up her social issues?!!!! Im sorry ladies it was just really hard reading all of this in black and white, put so bluntly... ugh, I know i wont be so angry a little while from now but some of the things said just didnt seem relevant to me.. (like having mild deformities and lazy eyes, well, shes still beautiful, and funny, and loving, ) ugh.