so as most of you know ive been so wishy washy on how i feel about judes dx, i fought for it for months, and then once he got it, i started doubting it.
so my question is, those of you who have delt with denial, or wondering if you are wrong, how long did it last?
i know hes not quote on quote "normal" but at the same time, how do i accept or truely know that he is autistic, and how do i even have a clue if he is, on how well functioning he is.
does the level of functioning relate specifiaclly to acedimic and cognitive?
if so hes pretty high most milestones are met, and hes very smart.
however behaviorally, responisvely, hes so far gone in some ways i wonder if i'll ever get him to listen and behave appriopriately agian.
hes worse than even the most defiant teenager , and hes not even 3.