Friends vs. not really ur friend
Good Morning Ladies,
How many of you can say you have good friends that accept you and your family and all the challenges that come with going out together???? Honsetly I think I have one person who is anoter army wife that has really proven she is there and LIKES to go out with us and it doesn't bug her when my son has a huge meltdown. She is a great support when I have my "meltdowns" of completed frustrationa and exhaustion wt trying to calm my son down and have a smooth transition. And I have meet others that pretend and talk cra behind your back or live in a square box and cant understand change or different needs. They dont take time to get to know you and your difference as a good thing, all they see r the difference and just cant get pass that. And it is there lost.. I am tired of trying so hard to only get reject... or they "feel sorry".. DONT FEEL SORRY FOR us.... Please we do not need ur pity we need to open your freaking eyes and see the beautiful and the uniqueness we bring. OMG guys my son is such a delight...he has a way to completely melt ur heart and then break ur heart when he is having challenges. Do I trade one for the other... I don't think so.. I know as we work hard and we get pass the "bumps" in the road we can move forward... I have learned so much in the pass 5 years then I have in my life and "life and challenges and being strong and not giving up and taking the good with the bad..."