I am a single mom of a 12yr old daughter who is in the spectum. She is almost 13 and I am still having issues with her bathing herself. she knows what to do, just seems like she doesnt truly care about doing it. I have tried to work with her thru the yrs, but she seems to have no intrest in it. Help! does anyone have any advice on how I can encurrge her to do this task?