Ok...so here it all is and any information is greatly appreciated.
My Autistic son is 8 and my daughter is 5. By the time baby number 3 enters the world they will be 9 and 6. I realized just the other day that ALL my efforts are in my son and I have been "neglecting" in a sense my daughter in terms of being on her with her school work and development. On top of that I will eventually have a new baby. So I really need some sample daily routines or something to help guide me into making my own daily routines, and some advice on how to discipline myself to follow those routines so I can fit in time for everyone and accomplish what I need to. I am not a routine person on my own, that is a HARD task for me to implement on my own but I know for my son it is necessary and am starting to think it is necessary to so I can fit my daughter in there.
I also need some help on sleep aids for my son. He doesn't sleep well and often has bags under his eyes. And basically I just need to know where to start with this. While I have had the diagnosis for a while, I really have not reached a "starting point" at home with it. For years we paid attention to his first diagnosis of ADHD so now it is hard to change gears a bit. Essentially, I am overwhelmed with everything and could use some guidance on this I guess. THANK YOU ahead of time for just listening if that is all you do :)