at my wits end and 2 in tears ( UPDATE IN BLUE)
My daughter who has aspergers and depression got upset with me tonight and put her fist up to punch me after she started arguing with me. We go through the emotional stuff every month usually at school. Tonight has been a bad night. She flipped out over me asking her a question, then later tonight she started bawling about a shirt i basically told her clean your room and you would find your clothes. Also you have to put clothes in so i can wash them. So she flipped out attacked me while bawling , then hurt her ankle and screamed bloody murder to make people think that i was abusing her :( I am over it tonight. I am the only one her to handle everything and it has been stressful. She is about to start her cycle and it gets bad around that time., They have her on abilify to help with her emotions but it is not working around that time. I cannot get her into the Gyno til next month to see if there is something else to do for her. Her Dr does not want to do it since she is having 2 cycles a month she would rather the gyno take a look at it. I agree just wish i could get her in. I am venting more then anything but i do not tolerate violence. I do not know what to do if she actually attacks me. I am afraid to defend myself because if i do then i feel it would be abuse. I am trying to get her back into counseling to. Help please her and i both are in tears tonight. She sat and hugged me tonight after it was all said and done. and cried in my arms.
update Marissa apparently had a issue at school yesterday to, and today she was being picked on, they went to tell her that she was going to be in ISS since the person who gives ISS was gone yesterday. She totally melted down screaming crying slamming doors. They thought they were going to have to restrain her but did not. They were going to send her home but really did not want to because after so many OSS you get sent to a different school, they are trying to work with her with only 20 days left. I went there and talked to her. I also talked to the counselor to watch her eyes. If they are really dark and you see no color then she could have a major melt down.