UPDATE!!!!!! So nervous... This is actually happening already
So they came, 2 developmental specialists and a therapist and they observed and played with Delia thoroughly for anout over an hour, and asked me lots if questions and I went through my long list of red flags I had and they didnt see anything wrong whatsoever.!!! They said shes devwlopmentally on track and not behind at all. They just said she's a busy baby and she's going through Separation anxiety and she's gonna be a busy kid! Omg I'm so relieved and happy to know that she's well!!!! I totally had it in my head that she was going to need services! I think the whole thing is because of the fact she was in the Nicu for a month, so I just became obsessive over every little weird quirky thing that she did. But who knows somewhere down the line she could have issues, my mom has paranoid schizophrenia and it's possible something could pop up..