Ok, I will make this short and sweet, for me that is. My son, is on the spectrum, age 10 he is verbal enough to get his point across most of the time, he goes to a private school I fought to get him in. we live in MD. Essential, he tests well, in fact better that 100 in his school and compared to other even typical students he tests in the top 10 percent. No he is on the spectrum and Mild ADHD. Our issues are social. He is an only child, we entertain him and take him about, he has school from 8:45 and does not get home till 5PM, the trip to school is long and frustrating for him. He is usually scream and loud on a bad day. I want to get him in more social situation since that allows for visualization of appropriate behavior. I tell him the rule of no screaming or yelling site down and listen to your music. One day he just said to me, I have to talk, I have to use words. I cant put him in afterschool social events in school they are deemed for aspergers only. Looking are soical situation where he can deal with kids and do the normal give and take. Any ideas.