My kidos have both started school going on 2 weeks now and I'm concerned by my oldest son will not use the bathroom. He teacher told me yesterday when I picked him up that he has yet to use the bathroom since school has started! I reminded her again that he has to be told to go, he will never and has never gon on his own. I feel like one day he's jst going to burst and everyone will make fun of him.. making the issue of him using the bathroom even worse. I've tried taking him into the school bathroom so he can see that it's ok but he jst started covering his ears, closed his eye and screaming and saying it's too big and so scary.. it's only about 4 ft bigger than our bathroom at home. And the toilets are short, jst for children. It was like he was going to have a heart attack. I'm jst so worried bc holding your pee is never good and Im jst worried... thats a long day not to go to the bathroom. And he also jst learned to use the bathroom... i wanna say bout 10 mos ago. He doesnt eat the teacher said but she said he drinks a lot drinks.. which she said the amount that even wouldnt be able to hold it. Any advice?