I just got off the phone with the director to the private preschool.
I picked Nicolas up from school and he had chocolate pudding all over his face. You can tell he is not happy. So before I can say anything, she starts telling me how the pudding is messy and he does better with chips. I tell her that I send what I have. Then she tells me that they have to wipe his self and she can't do it. I then ask her if she could have given him a wet cloth or something? She then just tells me that he had a really bad day and had several tantrums.
I was beyond myself at this point. I go to put Nick in the truck and he has a meltdown saying he is messy boy! I ask him who said he is messy, and he tells me his teacher. He won't get in the truck!!! I have to pick him up telling that I will wipe his face when we get home. (I just took the wipes out of the truck because of the cold) he is crying and upset.
I truly feel like Nicolas is being ignored and mistreated in the class. When he walks in, the teachers don't speak to him. He tries to communicate with them but they either ignore him or give a "ya" answer. Last week he was so excited that I got him a new coat with his bday money. He went in saying new coat! They didn't acknowledge him. Then today another child got a new coat and they made a big deal out of it! Nick again turned around and tried to show off his coat but no response. It kills me to think that this is how he will be treated for being different!
Plus the teacher hasn't done anything that we agreed on. She was supposed to make a big schedule for the whole class. So Nicolas can see what will be next. She hasn't!
Thanks for letting me rant! The director said she is going to talk to the teacher tomorrow. I told her that something has to be done!