Dd is 4 and on phenobarbital for anxiety. She was placed with me for adoption last February and I've been trying to toilet training her for six months. She's in school fulltime and her educational assistant is supposed to put her on the toilet in regular intervals but she fights. She will go at home if I put her on but doesn't ask. She is verbal now but was nonverbal until seven months ago. I've read online that phenobarbital can cause incontinence in animals when used for seizures. I'm thinking that it numbs her nerve endings so much that she can feel when she needs to go. Has anyone had this experience? Do you have any suggestions on how to train her?