So, I told her that they can give me the contact info for the parent bringing in the stuff and I can ask if it has tree nuts. So, now I think the teacher is supposed to find out ahead of time what is being brought in.
It just seems like now they are trying to do anything that they can to make me miserable. I don't know how much more fighting I can do!
Well, I called the director today. I came off telling her that I was thinking about the issue with the parent made snacks. And that I will just send in a Reese cup so that he also has another snack just like the rest of the kids having a special snack. That is his favorite. I could tell that she didn't like it, but said that they haven't heard from the other parent yet. I made sure that if anything was store bought, then Nick would be offered what everyone else gets. I then asked her why this is an issue now and all the other times he has been given whatever the parents brought in. She then tells me that the other cupcakes were store bought. NO THEY WERENT! I was there when the parent brought them in. We argued about that for a few. Then I asked why can't she have a rule that everyone has to bring store brought items in because of allergies. That I know Nicolas can't be the only one there with this issue. She said she brought up this same issue with the board and it will probably be no birthday snack at all because of all these problems! She insinuated that I am the reason for this. I again mentioned the store bought item thing and told her that this will solve the allergy problem. I am drained today already. In going to send a Reese cup in with nick tomorrow and hope he doesn't have a meltdown at snack time. :/