My son turned 4 last month and we haven't had a birthday party for him yet for the main reason we have all had strep. He has been so ill he actually got strep rash. All 5 members in my house have been sick so we have delayed his party. We was going to have it this weekend but because we have all been sick dh has missed work we refuse to use emergency money for his party so we decide to wait until next weekend. He doesn't realize its his birthday. Well today my mil ordered a cake and says we are going to have his party this weekend! I already explained to her that we haven't been well enough to get his presents and money was tight so we was going to wait another week because we didn't have the money. Her reply was I don't care he has went long enough and he was going to get a cake. My reply was well I care! She said she didn't ! Is this wrong of me not too let her buy the cake and have his party when she sees fit? He is non-verble and don't even know when his birthday is! PLEASE HELP in need your opinions!
on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:58 PM