I found this pin on Pinterest, it has a wooden spoon for the image and it was about disciplining special needs kids. It's honestly never occured to me to spank MY son, and I thought the spoon was a joke or something. I read the blog post and it's about this mother who spanks her non-verbal son with moderate-severe autism with a spoon.
When my son was diagnosed, the doctor that diagnosed him told us not to use physical discipline with him because these kids don't understand it and with their sensory issues you don't know how it can feel to them. Not that we needed to be told that, I've always been against spanking, even before I knew he wasn't NT.
Anyway, this is what I commented: