I love my mother to death but as soon as I had my child I got servere backpain from the epidural. At night I cant even walk so last night my mother for the first time had to help me take care of him. Today she tells me I need to spend more time with my son. That annoys me , because my world revolves around my son. For her to say that pisses me off to no end. I cant wait until me and hubbys house is done being renovated so I can live on my own again. I appreciate my mom for her help but to say my kid is closer to her than me is bullshit. im at my whits end with her!