I tried to call her, but didn't hear back, so I sent her a text asking if she wanted both of the white bands on the coccoon or if she'd like a hat, which would have the second band on it.
Didn't hear back, so I bought enough yarn for TWO, planning to make both, then let her choose anf just sell the other one to someone else.
Her scheduled c-section is about 2 weeks away now.
She sent me a facebook message last night saying sorry for not getting back to me, and that her mom had found a coccoon like that on eBay *right after she asked me* and had bought it for her, so she didn't want me to make one for her to buy from me.
I think it was rude... No?
It is rude, only if her mom knew you were making them. If her mom didn't know she had asked you to make them, then I would say no. but I'm sure you will be able to sell both!
It is a little rude... sometimes people avoid phonecalls while they think there way out of a problem versus own up to it, confront it head on and don't realize the damage they are doing to trust factor in the relationship.
Ms. Manners would say rude... I would say friendship neglect.
I hope you are able to sell your creations and that is really unfortunate because now you are out the $10 on supplies.
Hopefully I will be able to sell them; my little man is too big to let me stuff him in a coccoon now! Lol
Quoting hartline27:It is rude, only if her mom knew you were making them. If her mom didn't know she had asked you to make them, then I would say no. but I'm sure you will be able to sell both!
I can understand getting caught up with all the craziness preparing for the baby (her first is a girl, and she certainly didn't go gender neutral for her so I'm sure she had some things to get!!), but I wish she would've called sooner.
Quoting Balancing:It is a little rude... sometimes people avoid phonecalls while they think there way out of a problem versus own up to it, confront it head on and don't realize the damage they are doing to trust factor in the relationship.
Ms. Manners would say rude... I would say friendship neglect.
I hope you are able to sell your creations and that is really unfortunate because now you are out the $10 on supplies.
If her mom didn't know, then I don't think it's rude.. But, I mean... I'm a jerk - it takes me FOREVER to get back to people, call them text them, anything. I don't ever answer my phone when people call unless it's my fiance. Is she always otherwise prompt to return your calls or is she a jerk like me and always hours or days late get back to ya?
yeah she should have deffinately told you right away. I'm sure you will be able to sell them! Just stay positive!
Quoting DaiTilley:
As far as I know her mom didn't know. What bugged me was that she waited so long to cancel when her mom had found it so soon after she made arrangements with me. d:
Hopefully I will be able to sell them; my little man is too big to let me stuff him in a coccoon now! Lol
Quoting hartline27:
It is rude, only if her mom knew you were making them. If her mom didn't know she had asked you to make them, then I would say no. but I'm sure you will be able to sell both!
Very rude! I'd be pissed off. She could have at least had the decentsy to cancel after her mom bought the other one, knowing she wasn't going to buy the one from you. Its not her moms fault its her fault. Im sorry!
Newest dress for Paisley
- DaiTilley
on Feb. 9, 2012 at 9:12 AM