Am I wrong? Or is my DH wrong? Or is it just a mess?
I never thought I would have this problem. But here I am arguing with my husband over this issue. Iâ€™m trying to decide if I need to keep my mouth shut, or continue to argue with what I think is right for my son.
Hereâ€™s the dealâ€¦.
My son is 6 years old. In the little valley we live there are 4 major soccer clubs/coaches for his age. None of them have an official team since the boys are too young to play competitively. Out of the 4 coaches and clubs, my son has been playing with 3 of them. I think as long as my son is happy and invited to play with the different groups he should be able to. Since there is no competition level for the age I see no problem here. As long as he is having fun, and wants to play. I figure have at it. Iâ€™m the one who drives him to the places.
My husband thinks he need (son needs) to pick one coach/team/club. Only to play with and support one of the groups. Even though he cant join a team for another 2 years. So this is where the conflict comes, is it wrong to let him play with all of the clubs/coaches? Does he need to already decide 2 years before he can even join a team? The other problem is my husband says that if my son continues to play with the different groups, he walking some political soccer line, that I donâ€™t understand. I see it more like if he picks one place now heâ€™s limiting where his options are when the time comes to chose a team.
What are your thoughts or opinions?