My DD plays on a 10U travel softball team. They are a new, younger team. So the key positions (pitcher and catcher) are well a little rough lol. Plus we are a little short of players sometimes. Anyways we have a couple girls that will come guest play with us. They are on other teams, but we never ask them to play when their team has tournaments and the coaches have not tried to "steal" them away. They are just friends with the parents and ask them to play with us every once in a while. Anyways one particular girl's(she is an awesome pitcher) coaches get so PISSED about her playing with us. I just don't understand the issue. Her parents and the girl are more than happy to play with us. She loves to play and she loves to be looked up to with our girls...lol. Maybe I'm just blind to the issue, but I don't see the big deal if they were not planning on having a tournament the same day/weekend?