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OT: Got some disturbing news prayers/good vibes needed ( long Im sorry ) UPDATE

Posted by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:14 AM
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I will try to make a long story short for you all. Back around april I got several (10) positive pregnancy test so we thought we were going to be having a baby around Dec 18th-21st. On June 11th I started cramping in my left side and has a little bit of dull colored ( light pinkish) bleeding . I figured it was not big deal but we were leaving for Fl.( from Texas) the next day and I did not have a Dr. at the time so I went to the ER to be sure all was ok for travel. We get there and were told (after a sonogram and they could not find a heart beat) that I was measuring to be about 13 weeks but there was no evidence of a fetus at all but was evidence of pregnancy. They called what was going on a Blighted Ovum and said that I would miscarry , to go on vacation and come back in about 14 days. Well nothing happened so we went back to the ER about 3 weeks later. They said there was nothing they could do but I was still showing evidence of pregnancy but no fetus. I called the last Dr I used ( who is a specialist) and told him what was going on . He said I could wait till the middle of Aug if I did not miscarry to go into the ER  also if I started bleeding , cramping or had a fever go to ER. Yesterday I started bleeding badly and had serious pain and cramping so we go to the ER ( not the same one as the first since we knew they could not do anything) and was told that I could have never have been pregnant that everything was indicating that I could have been about a week along but they will not know until or if I do miscarry. Then they tell me they found a fibroid inside my uterus the size of a large orange or small grape fruit! They said this could have sent a false positive or I could have been preg and this did not allow baby to grow. They told me that it was a highly likely hood it was cancerous and that more than likely I would have to have a hysterectomy !!! WHAT !? I am 33 I should not have to have a hysterectomy! So I am freaking out a bit ! I do have an apt at 1:30 with my previous Dr. please send good vibes my way .




! I feel so much better mentally and emotionally but am in a world of physical pain. Thank you so much for your well wishes and prayers !!!sono night . To top all this off my doctor would not let me pay the office visit, the lab work or the cost of the friday as he wanted but they would back him if he could get someone else to do it. SO he calls the hospital and a fellow surgeon and 12 hours later I am meeting the lady that is going to help me !!! I had the DNC bono his partners and they say that there is not more charity funds avail so he can not do the surgery pro-th) . He knows I have no insurance that is why no one will do the surgery. He calls a meeting wifriday is left over from pregnancy and needs to be removed NOW(this was sono. He said that it is VERY evident that everything he sees on the th and could bleed to deahemorrhage tears the cervix they may have to remove the cervix and if you leave it and do not have surgery (DNC) right now it could very well tear the cervix and you would th they will have to remove the cervix, if the growdetach and will not calcified has th wall. If that growuterine to the attached of some sort that is inside your uterus and does appear to be th, and yes you COULD have to have a hysterectomy, there is a grape fruit sized growth me. He said I am telling you that this COULD be life or death what they told me. He was very straight forward wibelieve the hospital only did one of the 9 test needed and could not believe,blood work,and exam. He is FURIOUS!!!!! He can not sono so I get to the doctor (the good one , the one we trust) and he is super nice to us, he knew we had no insurance so he was going to work out a payment plan for the visit . I get in the room and he does a Ok

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by Julia on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:22 AM

oh my goodness mama! I am praying for you! HUGS!

(Also, I don't know much of anything, but is it possible to just take out the fibroid, without getting a hysterectomy?

Julia: wife of Drew, christian, pro-life, homebirthing, AP mom of Damien and Gavin, baby Harley 2/09-3/09, Mason 9-19-2010  Isaiah 66:10-13

by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:24 AM

Thank you

by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:37 AM

I am new to the board. I will also send prayers your way. I have had a few miscarriages and I really feel for you. Hang in there!

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by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 12:15 PM

Oh my! You'll be in my thoughts. Keep us posted.

by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 12:26 PM
Praying for you
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by Jinx on Aug. 12, 2011 at 1:18 PM
Definitely sending Thoughts n prayers your way.
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by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 1:20 PM

My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to you. I had a partial hyst. when I was 29. I will not go into my story, but I wanted you to hear support from someone who has been in your shoes. The fear of all the "What ifs" will drive you mad if you let them. Surround yourself with good thoughts and loving people.

by Platinum Member on Aug. 12, 2011 at 1:22 PM

Praying for you!

by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 3:55 PM

oh gosh Kenderly, I am so sorry!  I'd definitely go for a second (and third!) opinion.  (((HUGS)))  I hope everything works out.  

by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 5:51 PM

 will be praying sew

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