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OT: Got some disturbing news prayers/good vibes needed ( long Im sorry ) UPDATE

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I will try to make a long story short for you all. Back around april I got several (10) positive pregnancy test so we thought we were going to be having a baby around Dec 18th-21st. On June 11th I started cramping in my left side and has a little bit of dull colored ( light pinkish) bleeding . I figured it was not big deal but we were leaving for Fl.( from Texas) the next day and I did not have a Dr. at the time so I went to the ER to be sure all was ok for travel. We get there and were told (after a sonogram and they could not find a heart beat) that I was measuring to be about 13 weeks but there was no evidence of a fetus at all but was evidence of pregnancy. They called what was going on a Blighted Ovum and said that I would miscarry , to go on vacation and come back in about 14 days. Well nothing happened so we went back to the ER about 3 weeks later. They said there was nothing they could do but I was still showing evidence of pregnancy but no fetus. I called the last Dr I used ( who is a specialist) and told him what was going on . He said I could wait till the middle of Aug if I did not miscarry to go into the ER  also if I started bleeding , cramping or had a fever go to ER. Yesterday I started bleeding badly and had serious pain and cramping so we go to the ER ( not the same one as the first since we knew they could not do anything) and was told that I could have never have been pregnant that everything was indicating that I could have been about a week along but they will not know until or if I do miscarry. Then they tell me they found a fibroid inside my uterus the size of a large orange or small grape fruit! They said this could have sent a false positive or I could have been preg and this did not allow baby to grow. They told me that it was a highly likely hood it was cancerous and that more than likely I would have to have a hysterectomy !!! WHAT !? I am 33 I should not have to have a hysterectomy! So I am freaking out a bit ! I do have an apt at 1:30 with my previous Dr. please send good vibes my way .

 

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! I feel so much better mentally and emotionally but am in a world of physical pain. Thank you so much for your well wishes and prayers !!!sono night . To top all this off my doctor would not let me pay the office visit, the lab work or the cost of the friday as he wanted but they would back him if he could get someone else to do it. SO he calls the hospital and a fellow surgeon and 12 hours later I am meeting the lady that is going to help me !!! I had the DNC bono his partners and they say that there is not more charity funds avail so he can not do the surgery pro-th) . He knows I have no insurance that is why no one will do the surgery. He calls a meeting wifriday is left over from pregnancy and needs to be removed NOW(this was sono. He said that it is VERY evident that everything he sees on the th and could bleed to deahemorrhage tears the cervix they may have to remove the cervix and if you leave it and do not have surgery (DNC) right now it could very well tear the cervix and you would th they will have to remove the cervix, if the growdetach and will not calcified has th wall. If that growuterine to the attached of some sort that is inside your uterus and does appear to be th, and yes you COULD have to have a hysterectomy, there is a grape fruit sized growth me. He said I am telling you that this COULD be life or death what they told me. He was very straight forward wibelieve the hospital only did one of the 9 test needed and could not believe,blood work,and exam. He is FURIOUS!!!!! He can not sono so I get to the doctor (the good one , the one we trust) and he is super nice to us, he knew we had no insurance so he was going to work out a payment plan for the visit . I get in the room and he does a Ok






by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:14 AM
Replies (11-20):
bren_darlene
by Bronze Member on Aug. 12, 2011 at 6:01 PM

 Oh no, I am so sorry. Will be thinking of your during this time.

Clarity_Faith
by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 8:28 PM

Wow! I am really sorry this is happening to you! Will send prayers your way!

AllThatBabyJazz
by Bronze Member on Aug. 12, 2011 at 8:33 PM

Oh hun. Praying!

joannarenay
by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 10:15 PM
I am so sorry to hear! I will be praying for you and your family.
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tmgonz
by Member on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:12 PM

I will keep you in my prayers.

Earthy_Mom
by on Aug. 12, 2011 at 11:19 PM

Positive vibes coming your way! Hope everything turns out alright!

2turtles
by on Aug. 13, 2011 at 12:05 AM

so sorry. saying a prayer for you now.  Hang on to hope though. In my experience, I seem to get "worst case scenario" in the ER and then it turns out to not be the case.   Praying it will work out for you too.

tuffymama
by Bronze Member on Aug. 13, 2011 at 3:37 PM

DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT have a hysterectomy!!! I had the same kind of thing happen at TWENTY-SEVEN years old, hand to God, and I put my foot down and moved on to a female doctor. I was ten weeks when they found the problem, and it was also ruled blighted ovum. I had laser surgery to remove some fibrous tissue, and kept all my parts. I cleaned up my diet, doing away with any and all estrogen mimickers I could, and went on about my life. My LO is two years old. Had I stuck with the first opinion, he wouldn't be here. Dr. Mercola at mercola.com had an interesting article fairly recently on how far too many women are victimized by automatic hysterectomies they don't need. You might search it out, as I think I remember it mentioned some other good articles for information.

Peace and comfort to you! I'm sory this happened. I'll pray for your blessing to follow...

sew4fun
by on Aug. 15, 2011 at 3:44 AM

Bump for update  

Precious333
by Julia on Aug. 15, 2011 at 10:37 AM

I'm continuung to pray for you! Thank God that He provided a good doctor for you!

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