My ds who is 5.5 has been in kindergarten in ps since the start of the year. I had every intention of letting him finish out the year and go to full time hs this next school year. Through out this year I have been backing up the schools teachings with my own hs curric. Here is the problem. I got my sons report card today and nearly everything on this report card is a P (p=needs improvement). I know 110% my son knows this stuff he does all of it and beyond at home. Every single worksheet i have him do or every paper work i have him do gets sent to school so the teacher can look at it.
Anyways my question is. If I were to pull my son out of his ps now would he go into 1st grade in august or would he remain on the kindergarten curric. We're in KS and KS law states no child HAS to be enrolled in school until the age of 7 and my son took the placement for a virtual school program last week and according to it he is ready for 1st grade and has 2nd grade math skills. His bday is in june so he would be 6 before the new school year started.
I withdrew my son out yesterday. I had to fill out a form (which isnt actually required) and had to meet with the principal. She had the nerve to tell me that KS law is children have to be enrolled in school at 6 when it is actually 7. I have done my research and know what the law is. The second thing she had the nerve to do was tell me "we get a lot of homeschool kids here and they are always behind, there is a huge gap between them and the other students" It took everything I had at that point to control myself. I told her that I did not believe that were true and if indeed it were true then the parents were not doing their jobs properly or their child was not a homeschool child. I told her homeschool is not for every child and its not for every parent, perhaps the parents saw that their child was not doing well in a homeschool setting which is why they placed them into that school. I told her even my son's teacher expressed to me that if I were not supplamenting with homeschool he would not be as advanced as he is.... When asked why jmy son was failed she said because he had 10.5 missed days. I informed her they were all excused and she said it didnt matter. That is when I went off on her explaining that apparently i'm a horrible mother and my son deserves to fail because i dont send him to school with a migrane, or while hes on codine the first 2 days he breaks his foot in 2 placed, or the two times he quit breathing and he was put into the hospital for 24 hour observation, or when I have drs orders to keep him home because he was suffering from exhaustion when he came back from his dads house. Yeah needless to say i'm so glad I pulled him and If I were to ever put my son back into the ps system it will NOT be at that school.