Is your doctor supportive of your choice to homeschool? We recently switched doctors because our previous one seemed really too forceful with opinions- we found one that is great! She listens, offers advice, but doesn't force it, and is patient with each question. She is encouraging and I feel like the kids had a visit with a grandma figure by the end of the appointment.
She is a huge supporter of homeschooling even! I'm so glad we found her!