Short background on my two HS'd students: DD12 is using K12 this year and we're traditionally schooling DS14.
A moment ago, I realized that I am doing this all wrong with DS! I'm schooling him at home vs. homeschooling him! The "mold" approach hasn't worked for us, so I have no idea why I've clung to a few remaining ideas that I need to try to fit a square peg into a round hole. I need to toss out the PS practices that don't work for us and forge our own way of doing things. Better to discover this now rather than later. LOL!
OK, what are your confessions? Surely you have some. :)