AS a stay at home/homeschooling mom, do you ask your DH to help out with things? Do you get your quiet time or space? I have a 2, 4 and 6 yr old, all boys. I homeschool and I also tutor and teach on the side. I very rarely ask for help from DH (just recently starting asking for a few things now and then. My cousin and my sister think I should ask for help. My sister is also a sahm, doesn't homeschool, and still has her DH help her. My cousin is engaged, has no children of her own, but he fiance has a son. WE are so much into a routine where Itake care of the house stuff and children, and he takes care of the finances. I dont' want to change that, but I wonder if I should have him help a little so I can get some quiet time, like doing yoga or something like that.