Thank you so much for the comments and support. I have really needed it. My sister did a 180 on us yesterday. He is once again a victim and it's his pain that is the problem, not the fact that he's a... (fill in the blank). Today she is taking the kids to go and see their dad. She wanted to take them home tonight but neither of the girls want to go. My neice told my daughter that the reason her dad is in the hospital is because he got so mad at her mom that he shot himself in the leg. This is the kind of enviornment they are used to. :*(
My mom has decided to tell her tomorrow morning that she needs to decide if she wants to be a mom or a wife. Then we'll either help her move or call CPS. My heart hurts so much over this and over what she and the kids are likely going to have to go through. My DH and I are trying to get the house ready, so we can take them should that be an option.
Thank you again for your help and support! I'm sorry to bring this drama here, I just didn't know where else to go.