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Everyone, Hold your breath with me! *Update* She changed her mind :-(

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I talked to my mom and she gave me some pretty good advice. She said Savannah is still a child and needs me to help her make good choices. (Sounds like what you guys tell me,lol) And to give her till the end of Christmas vacation to pull all her grades up to Cs. If she can't do that, then we'll have to do things my way. I'm going to be asking for weekly progress reports from all her teachers. And lastly, if we have to go to court for her attendence, all bets are off. She'll be pulled out that day.

She came home today all out of breath and excited because now she wants to stay. She told a teacher that she was going to homeschool. The teacher flipped and begged her to stay. She promised to change her schedule, give her new teachers and 1st lunch so she can hang out with her friends. Other kids who didn't have an interest in her before also wanted her to stay. It made her feel important.

Another thing, she's worried that she might miss out on some vital learning needed for high school that won't be taught in homeschool. (We were only going for 8th grade right now) When I asked, she was vauge about what information she might need. Then I asked what she learned last year that she used this year. She didn't have an answer for that either and started getting defensive. I'm sure she's made up her mind to stay at PS :-( I just can't compete with cute boys, nice teachers and fake friends.

Link to the other thread

So last night I was washing dishes with my 13yo dd and out of the blue she said, "Mom, I want to homeschool." You could have knocked me over with a feather,lol.

So I asked her why. She said the teachers are mean, she has no friends (all of her friends live on our street, everyone is stuck up, her classes are boring, she hates getting up so early to get ready to try and impress people she doesn't even like, she hates the uniforms and she's not learning anything. Poor baby is on her third year of remedial math and said if she has to learn about basic operations one more time she's going to scream! lol

I assured her that if she did come home, things would be much different. Then I gave her a quick run down of what we would do including outside school activities. She begged me to pull her out right now. I told her to give it to the end of the week to make sure it's really something she wants. She was in tears when I told her that. It was the hardest thing to make her go today :-(

So everyone, cross your fingers with me. If all goes well, I'll have DD homeschooling by next week!fingers crossed

by on Sep. 9, 2013 at 12:12 PM
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paganbaby
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 7:53 PM

I was excited too! Now I have to re-think things.

Quoting coala:

Sorry to hear that she changed her mind.  I was so excited for you.


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coala
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 7:58 PM

I hope you figure it out soon.


Quoting paganbaby:

I was excited too! Now I have to re-think things.

Quoting coala:

Sorry to hear that she changed her mind.  I was so excited for you.




paganbaby
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:00 PM

I think I have it. I updated the OP. Tell me what you think?

Quoting coala:

I hope you figure it out soon.


Quoting paganbaby:

I was excited too! Now I have to re-think things.

Quoting coala:

Sorry to hear that she changed her mind.  I was so excited for you.





Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

coala
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:06 PM

I like your plan.  I hope it works....I agree that you still need to help her make good choices.


Quoting paganbaby:

I think I have it. I updated the OP. Tell me what you think?

Quoting coala:

I hope you figure it out soon.


Quoting paganbaby:

I was excited too! Now I have to re-think things.

Quoting coala:

Sorry to hear that she changed her mind.  I was so excited for you.







bluerooffarm
by Gold Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:33 PM

 With good reason.  She overstepped her bounds.  Probably because the school loses money when a child is pulled to hs.

Quoting paganbaby:

I am so not happy.

Quoting bluerooffarm:

 I think I would have to have a word with that teacher.  She took advantage, IMO.


 

paganbaby
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:43 PM

I have a feeling she will be home after Christmas. But this way it gives her a sense of choice and responsibility.

Quoting coala:

I like your plan.  I hope it works....I agree that you still need to help her make good choices.


Quoting paganbaby:

I think I have it. I updated the OP. Tell me what you think?

Quoting coala:

I hope you figure it out soon.


Quoting paganbaby:

I was excited too! Now I have to re-think things.

Quoting coala:

Sorry to hear that she changed her mind.  I was so excited for you.








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paganbaby
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:44 PM

Yep. I know that's why she fought so hard to keep her. But it doesn't matter, if she can't pull her grades up I'll take her out anyway.

Quoting bluerooffarm:

 With good reason.  She overstepped her bounds.  Probably because the school loses money when a child is pulled to hs.

Quoting paganbaby:

I am so not happy.

Quoting bluerooffarm:

 I think I would have to have a word with that teacher.  She took advantage, IMO.


 


Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

bluerooffarm
by Gold Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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 I think your plan looks great!

Quoting paganbaby:

Yep. I know that's why she fought so hard to keep her. But it doesn't matter, if she can't pull her grades up I'll take her out anyway.

Quoting bluerooffarm:

 With good reason.  She overstepped her bounds.  Probably because the school loses money when a child is pulled to hs.

Quoting paganbaby:

I am so not happy.

Quoting bluerooffarm:

 I think I would have to have a word with that teacher.  She took advantage, IMO.


 


 

SusanTheWriter
by on Sep. 11, 2013 at 9:03 PM

How many days does she have to miss before she's declared truant? Because I'd have a zero tolerance policy on that. Starting from today, if she skips just once, boom. She's home. But then, I'm kind of a hard-@ss about that sort of thing.

paganbaby
by Silver Member on Sep. 11, 2013 at 9:54 PM

She's not skipping, just always late. And I'm not sure. I think she was late for at least 10 days when they sent the officer to her school. Her friend's dad was taking them and apparently he couldn't get them to school on time. I'm taking her now but some mornings she just won't MOVE.

Quoting SusanTheWriter:

How many days does she have to miss before she's declared truant? Because I'd have a zero tolerance policy on that. Starting from today, if she skips just once, boom. She's home. But then, I'm kind of a hard-@ss about that sort of thing.


Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Breastfeeding tickers

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