DH and I talked about it, and he thinks she shouldn't go to her room, we should have a specific alone spot for her when she acts like this where she can do her work alone. And I started thinking she was probably anxious about our first co op class today. Which isn't an excuse for treating me horribly, but at least there was a reason. So once she settled down and came back, I told her maybe she was feeling anxious and she should ask to talk about it, not freak out and have tantrums. Which caused her to freak out and have another tantrum. And so the day went. Finally at lunch time, I talked out the whole co op thing basically with myself so she could hear the fears and know that it was ok to be scared or nervous, but that it's better to talk about it and try to come up with a solution to a problem. She ended up LOVING the co op class! But there was a point she was not going to go because she had to read the rules and it sounded like a "prison" (you know bc ps didn't have any rules..right?). I felt crappy because even though I knew that was bugging her (I thought of it around 10:30) I still didn't completely take it easy on her. I still just had no patience for her.
Then I had to drop them off immediately with DH and go to work, so I felt like I didn't even get to really spend good time with them today. On top of that, I got an email from my boss that I failed the test they made me take on my training-even though I can do the job, apparently I had to get a 92% on the test and I didn't. THEN I got an email from the mortgage lady we've been working with letting me know that she can't pre approve us :(. So we are stuck with my MIL with no light at the end of the tunnel.
It was just one of those days where I kind of wish I never got out of bed this morning :(. But tomorrow will be better...right?!