im taking the dive into unschooling my kids throwing out the workbooks and allowing my kids choose what they want to do. my anxity level is so high right now but i know its right i really got to thining that i have been doing it with m son for the last year without realising what i was doing it. I know that letting go of the dreadful checcklist of wherre they are in learning is gonna be really hard for me i have this unhealthy drive to try to make sure my kids are right on target in the age and stuff. in fact i have been freaking out the last 6 months cuz my special needs boy is (technically) behind considerably he is turning 6 and still dont know his abc but is slowly getting the numbers thing down kinda gettting colors too but latelly i have been noticing small stuff with him organizing my cupcake wrappers by the color red,blue,green, and yellow he is trying to count and getting real darn close too. he is also takin a intreast in reading so much more and is asking to keep the light on at night to "read" lol ends up falling asleep with the books and I have sat hm down a handful in the last year for school andhe learns ok but with his sp its very hard to get him to focus and alot of the time he does not quite understand what im asking him to do either their is a hige comunication rift there that i have to work around constintly this last year alone i have been homescholing him i have been unschooling him from the very start without realising it its insane.