One peed and pooped her pants til 10. The other is doing it just like her sister did. She is six.
How can I control my frustration over this type of situation?
There isn't an actual health issue, but we have discussed the possibility of very borderline autism or some other developmental issue.
That only explains it... but doesn't give me hope for an end point.
There are other issues they deal with, but most people that know my older girl now, see a regular kid (albeit with a quirk or two)...
People are telling me the opposite about abby. Teachers and other leaders ask me privately about her age and if there are concerns all the time.
I just don't want to mess her up by handling these issues with a lack of grace. I'm tired.
And the really sad part is... I want more kids. I just don't want them to poop their pants until they are preteens. I feel like a really crappy mother.