I think I found the group for me

lmao...

Actually though, anyone have any tips?  I have two under 3 and my house stays a disaster for the most part.  I feel like I'd have to work 24 hours a day just to get everything done.  dh's idea of helping is sitting on his ass playing video games while watching the boys with one eye.  Tonight after I had a breakdown cos I didn't get any sleep and my 6 month old has an ear piercing happy scream that he starts in my ear this morning before I had even fallen asleep.  I swear though, if I could just get dh to clean up after himself and help me finish a to do list at least on the weekends it would make my life easier.  I honestly don't see that happening though....