K, so here's the big nerve wracker, especially since I'm about to have a son. How to put the weird bit....My father is an unhealthy man. No, I wasn't raped and whatever did happen is mostly a viciously uncomfortable blur, but our household was full of sexual tension to the point that the length of the shorts we wore to bed was regulated, we were taught masturbation was one of the worst things you could do in God's eyes and when it was discovered I was doing drugs in high school my father immediately started accusing me of whoring myself out to get them and demanding I tell him what I had done. (I hadn't, if you're wondering.) So now, my daughter pokes my breast when we're bathing and thinks it's hilarious and I feel dirty. What's the right way to do this? She notices my body and has started to explore her own, innocently, I know. She'll soon learn "the big difference" when her brother is born and I just wish I didn't get so damn uncomfortable with anything in this subject. How does your family handle nudity and different parts? I really need some input!!!!!!