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I've always looked down on mothers who don't co-sleep...

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2012 at 8:28 PM
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I'm ashamed to say it's true. In the back of my mind, I'm thinking, what mother would want her baby sleeping away from her in another bed or even another room?! That's unnatural.

I've co-slept with all three of my kids. My oldest didn't even get her own bed until she was 3 and my younger two were 2. Even then I still co-slept most of the time. My 5yo comes to my bed every single night,lol.

Then along came my 2yo nephew....this kid! He wiggles and squirms and rolls around. I get punched with elbows and knees. He sweats and drools. I just can't do it! So next time he comes over (He's been staying for week long visits) I've vowed to train him to sleep in his own bed. I won't do CIO, instead I've resigned myself to sitting by his bed and patting his back all night :-/ Anything has got to be better than him sleeping with me though!

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MommeeTo4
by Smart Mouth McGee on Feb. 5, 2012 at 8:50 PM
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I <3 co-sleeping.

This is how dd who's 13 months sleeps with dh & I

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PartyOf5InWI
by New Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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When my kids are newborns they sleep right next to me in the bassinet for about the first 3 months. After that they are in their own room unless they are sick then they can sleep in my room so I can keep a close eye on them.

I'm a really light sleeper and could never sleep with all my kids. Plus I feel that my bed is for my husband and I. That's our space and our time.

Although on the weekends when the kids wake up they come in our room to cuddle. I like that.

SarahLizyB
by Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 8:57 PM
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I'm glad it works for you, but its something I did not/will not do.
the3Rs
by Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:04 PM
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Ummm...okaaayy...

If I sent my son for a sleepover I would NOT want him sleeping in the same bed as his aunt and/or uncle.

And allowing my kids to sleep in their own room is juuuust fine.
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paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:05 PM

Lol! I kow my kids were like that too

Quoting MommeeTo4:

I <3 co-sleeping.

This is how dd who's 13 months sleeps with dh & I

This is dh {
This is me }
This is dd ----

So it looks like this

{ ---}




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paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:07 PM

Co-sleep? Or not co-sleep?

Quoting SarahLizyB:

I'm glad it works for you, but its something I did not/will not do.


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SarahLizyB
by Member on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:07 PM
I never have


Quoting paganbaby:


paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:08 PM

Ummm...he's 2 and co-sleeps with his mom. Why wouldn't he co-sleep with me??

And yeah, that was kind of my point. I used to look down on moms who didn't, but now since having him over I completely understand.

Quoting the3Rs:

Ummm...okaaayy...

If I sent my son for a sleepover I would NOT want him sleeping in the same bed as his aunt and/or uncle.

And allowing my kids to sleep in their own room is juuuust fine.


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by ♥Divalicious♥ on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:08 PM
I have with all five of my kids. I don't care what others do.
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paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 5, 2012 at 9:09 PM

Cool.

Quoting SarahLizyB:

I never have


Quoting paganbaby:



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