my mil and i dont get along at all, since the very begining she has not liked me I have 3 kids and not once in 5 years has she offered to babysit them even 1 time. I think bcuz she dsnt want me and my hubby to have alone time.
anyway, we lived with her for a yr and 1/2 while we were trying to buy a house. but we paid EVERYTHING bcuz she has never had a job in her life, she doesnt even drive. Her husband got sick and went back to colombia whre they are from. she chose to stay with the reason she didnt want to leave my kids. but she never even sees them?? so that doesnt make since. she thought she would be able to move with us when we got our house but i was like no way so she moved with a lady she knew from church, where she talked so much crap abt me i cant even show my face there and also to all my husbands fam back in colombia. they never even met me but think im the biggest btch ever (which im totally not!) so now the lady she lives with got married and is moving out. she has been watching after an elderly lady on the wkends but she dsnt make enough $ to survive on her own.
NOOOWWW her huband has been alone there for 3yrs so he got him a new girlfriend and shes all playing the victim like ahh poor me my husband cheated blahbla when we all kno its her own fault. so he sold their apt and gave her 1/2 which is 25,000. (that doesnt last long in miami). now she wants to rent an apt. but she doesnt have papers so she wants to put everything in my husbands name. he has busted his as to build his credit and buy our house and i dont want anything in his name bc if she gets deported or anything happens with her money he will be responsible. how do i not let this happen with out them all looking at me like im such a btch again and so against her?