Hi all.....my issue is very major to me so I def need honest feedback.
My husband and I have 6 children altogether, I have 3 prior,he has 2 prior and we have 1 son together. His children lives with their Mom in MD and they visit here and there.
My husband is a City employee so naturally he has great benefits, he set up college fund accts through his job for his 2 kids and my oldest kid and will setup for the rest of the kids when he receives his raise. Now I'm still looking for employment.....but now I'm feeling some kind of pressure to return the favour for his 2 kids. Is it selfish of me to open a college fund for my 3 kids only or should I do what my husband did for my kids and open one for his kids??