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what terminology do you use???

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 12:15 AM
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Okay this has probably been posted before and I missed it but I am curious...

Do you "make love" or have sex with your SO? I've always thought the term "make love" was kinda corney and so does my husband...what do y'all think?
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Bigmetalchicken
by Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 5:33 PM
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I tell him I want to 'show him the dance of my people', and he says he wants to practice some yoga.

HTMommy
by Crystal on Jul. 5, 2012 at 5:54 PM

Depends....sometimes when its sensual and takes forever its making love....enjoying eachother and caressing and yada yada yada...other times its a quick f*ck or sexy time LOL With 3 kids and no alone time....its mostly quickies

gina6239
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 6:24 PM

sexy time. lol.

Missy13d69
by Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 6:33 PM

To me, there's a difference in "Making love" and "having sex" and "fucking". "Making love" is that slow passionate emotional sex. "Having sex" is the average run of the mill sex. And "fucking" is that wild, fast, hard, noisy, crazy sex.

Ultra_
by Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 6:49 PM

I say whatever comes out and depending on the mood. If it's silly and fun I say, "let's make love!" or "make love to me!" in a silly way. If it's raunchy, rough and nasty, I'll use the f-word. He won't say the f-word ever though. If it's just that we're horny and there is not much foreplay, we'll just say sex.


Jennelly92
by New Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 6:55 PM

I think sometimes it can be "just sex" while other times it more "making love"

to me "making love" is more of a romantic term, and idk sometimes sex is just sex.

katemma
by New Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 7:14 PM
Lol we say "do it"
pampire
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 7:23 PM

have sex - or some completely crazy, funny phrase like "mattress dancing", "beast with two backs" - we're dorks like that.

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