See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Okay, those of you who have or havent read previous posts. Me, SO and DD live with our MIL (we settle on our house this week) we've delt with frustrating bullsh*t drama with his brother& brothers girlfriend (we all live together)
well yesterday things BLEW UP. SO was painting the foundation of the house for MIL (shes getting the house refinanced) it was hot, well.. his brothers girlfriend locked him outside the house, claimed the DEADBOLT "locked itself" .. well they should have left it at that... but no, they irritated SO's temper, and shit just hit the fan. Well, SO and his brother start screaming and yelling insulting comments back and forth, the "b*tch" walks down starts screaming at SO saying I DIDNT DO ANYTHING, THE DOOR LOCKED ITSELF, she then flips him off, and runs upstairs. Out of anger, SO threw an empty plastic water bottle at the wall, (he would never throw things at anyone,by the way) its better than hitting her, honestly. Well she rants that if he throws one more thing "at her" (it wasn't at her, she over exaggerates) she will call 911... *sigh* things just got even worse, she starts running her mouth saying HE THREW IT AT MY HEAD, WAH WAH WAH..
this girl is such poison, shes torn these two boys apart, runs her mouth about me, SO and how we live on facebook. Ever since SHE moved in.. This is our last week before we settle, we were planning on staying at the new place all next week cleaning, painting and moving. You would think that knowing we'd be out of here in LESS THAN A WEEK she would cut her shit out until we leave..
Mommas, I can't deal with her anymore, and I can't deal with the awkward, tense feelings. I just want our new home... we just found out the settlement date might get pushed back a few days and I dont know if I can handle staying here any longer than I have too. :( I hate this, I dont want my daughter around all this tense anger. ( I take her upstairs when the boys start yelling)
how can I handle this? cause it looks like I'm going to have too :(
Things have settled down in a sense.. shes still however being completely obnoxious.. but thats nothing new.. we found out we arent settling til tuesday or wednesday ( the plan was for monday, but he has to take a 1 hour class on the phone to get the certificate for the loan) So hes taking the class monday at 11, so thats why were settling so late. I will be SO glad when I can be in my own house.. today I went downstairs to lay down (DD wakes up at the slightest noise and our bed creaks at any movement, its a metal futon - ___ - ) I had a terrible migraine and I always have my coffee and get myself together before DD wakes up, well she decides to get up early on her day off and bang, slam, and make loud noise anytime she could.. I mean how can someone act the way she does? I dont even want to know whats being said over facebook about me and SO! its crazy...
i mean, she got kicked out because her family couldn't stand her (thats the excuse she told us) then she moves in here and WE can't stand her. I know the way she is , probably comes from the way she was raised.. I just can't believe shes torn these two apart like she has. Its bad enough the boys lost their dad the christmas before last, now they wont speak. Its better than yelling.. but its still very sad. She knows were moving, but yet she still insists on writing her initals on every food item she owns! First off, its all diet shit.. I eat healthy, but I dont eat the crap she does. We've told her that.. I feel like everything she does just gets on my nerves because of all the crap shes pulled.. I'm trying to not let it get to me, but its hard.