Family Member from heck, & trying to make trouble for us ?
My DH, self & DC *dependent child, have been through lots of really bad stuff. We lost our house two years ago, DH had a severe car accident, not at fault/very tramatic for my DH * he is still having problems with it, my own vehicle stopped working too about two months after my DH car accident. We had to ask for government, and social services assistance. Since all of this, DH had a heart attack, my Mom underwent heart surgery, and our DC was diagnosed with a serious medical problem ~ this happened all last summer. We relocated three times during our whole two year dilema. Now, SIL , six months ago is trying to sabbotage us, saying we are taking government assistance when we have 'too good of vehicles'. Well, one vehicle was actually totalled for almost one year , and DH finally got it fixed himself. My car went to the junk yard. Forunately, we were able to relocate to our original house which I believe is a total miracle from God. I have severe depression, & anxiety issues, and I am being seen by a doctor on a regular intervals. I just got a phone call from a government agency asking for our tax return, we have nothing to hide at all. My DH called his sister, and she said she turned us in because we have too much nice stuff. OH MY goodness. My bank account is in the negative. I am definitely NOT shopping at Macy's or eating out daily either. I am freaked by all of this drama that the SIL has done to us. Any advice. My husband is not making any money, neither am I. He has PTSD from car accident, depression, anxiety, heart problems. He is really angry at his sister for trying to make us look bad. Please share how I proceed? How do I deal with this drama? I don't have contact with her, rarely although living within 20 minutes from her. I think she is really psycho. HELP pls. How can a family member be so malious and vengeful, after all we've been through ? any advice?