My husband is friend's with this couple, and while I enjoy spending time with the husband of this couple, his wife drives me a little crazy. We have a 4 year old daughter, and the couple just had a baby girl. Everytime I see the wife, she is constantly hinting about wanting my daughter's clothing. In every thank you card to us, she ends with "I can't wait to use those hand-me-downs", "my daughter is going to love wearing your hand-me-downs", etc... She even wrote it in her daughter's birth announcement to us! She has even gone as far as asking for my daughter's dresses that her grandmother made for her and has asked my husband if she can have a specific dress she liked. We have been over the top generous to them (hence all the thank you cards), and I have to be honest, she has barely given us anything (not that it matters!). We also feed them ALL THE TIME, and never ask them to contribute. My husband loves this couple, and I would rather have my teeth pulled than spend another second with the wife. She is catty and gossipy, and on more than one occassion has made rude remarks about what my daughter is wearing and spread gossip about her. We are not having any more children and I feel bad not giving her hand-me-downs, but I honestly would rather give them to someone else. The wife is super immature, and I am older and more settled with my life. I would like to handle this situation repectfully and keep her out of my hair, and so far, I have been ignoring her hints. Any advice on getting Miss Give-Me-Your-Stuff out of my hair while keeping peace in our group of friends? Bonus points for creativity!