No, I don't feel kind right now. (Long, bad, horrific day following a bad weekend).
BUT - I checked the evites list for my son's party.
One parent responded and said yes for his son we invited - and then said "and his brother too" and added his brother one year older.
My son was told to keep his list light - and excluded some friends from school he would have loved to have asked. It is at my house and with the chosen activities at the party, we really wanted lower numbers.
I am freaking pissed, but I have a hard time telling this child no after his dad clearly invited him as well. (the older sibling is a nice boy - that is not the issue).
So- I am venting and stewing, but don't feel cruel enough to tell the older sibling he is NOT invited.
The more I think about the more irate I become.